Teaching
Students to be Peacemakers
David W. Johnson, Professor of Educational Psychology, University
of Minnesota
Roger T. Johnson, Professor of Curriculum and Instruction, University
of Minnesota.
The Johnsons are also co-directors of the Cooperative Learning
Center at the University of Minnesota.
"John pushed Perry down and so Perry kicked
him."
"Sally and Juanita were spitting in each other's
faces
and calling each other names."
"Tyler threatened to beat up Richard. Richard
said if Tyler
tried to do anything he would get even.
Schools are full of conflict. In fact, the frequency and severity
of conflicts seem to be increasing, so that for the first time,
the category "fighting, violence, and gangs" has tied for the number
one position with "lack of discipline" as the largest problem confronting
local public schools (Elam, Rose, & Harris, 1994).
However, conflict is not the problem; it is part of the solution.
When managed constructively, conflicts can:
- increase achievement and long-term retention of academic
material,
- increase the use of high-level cognitive and moral reasoning,
- increase healthy cognitive and social development,
- focus attention on problems and increase the energy to solve
them,
- clarify identity, commitments, and values,
- clarify how one may need to change,
- release anger, anxiety, insecurity, and sadness,
- strengthen relationships by increasing one's confidence
that disagreements can be resolved, keeping the relationship
clear of irritations and resentments, and
- be fun.
To realize the dual goals of order/peace and high quality education,
schools must manage conflict constructively. Students must be taught
to become peacemakers through the following steps (Johnson & Johnson,
1995a, 1995b):
- Create a cooperative context.
- Teach students to understand the nature and desirability of
conflict.
- Teach students the problem-solving negotiation procedure.
- Teach students how to mediate their schoolmates' conflicts.
- Implement peer mediation programs.
- Teach follow-up lessons to refine and upgrade students' skills
in using negotiation and mediation procedures.
- Repeat the above six steps each year from the first through
twelfth grades.
Step One: Creating a Cooperative Context
If conflicts are to be managed constructively, they must occur
in a cooperative, not a competitive context. It makes little sense
to teach students to manage conflicts constructively if the school
is structured so that students are pitted against each other in
competition for scarce rewards (like teacher attention and grades
of "A"). In competition, rewards are restricted to the few who perform
the best (Johnson & Johnson, 1989). Competitors tend to have a short-term
time orientation, focus all their energies on winning, misperceive
each other's position and motivations, be suspicious of each other,
deny the legitimacy of others' needs and feelings, and see the situation
only from their own perspective. When conflict resolution and peer
mediation programs are implemented in the existing competitive/individualistic
context of schools, their effectiveness can be severely compromised.
In order for conflicts to be resolved constructively, a cooperative
environment must be established. In a cooperative context, all participants
are committed to achieving mutual goals (Deutsch, 1973; Johnson
& Johnson, 1989). Conflicts tend to be defined as mutual problems
to be solved to the benefit of everyone. Cooperators tend to have
a long-term time orientation, focus their energies both on achieving
goals and on maintaining good work ing relationships with others.
They communicate frequently and accurately with each other and perceive
other participants' positions and motivations. They trust and like
each other and respond helpfully to each other's requests. They
recognize the legitimacy of each other's interests, and search for
a solution accommodating the needs of both sides.
A cooperative context is most easily established by
structuring the majority of learning situations cooperatively (Johnson &
Johnson, 1989; Johnson, Johnson & Holubec, 1993). Hundreds of studies indicate
that cooperative learning promotes greater effort to achieve, more positive
relationships among students, and greater psychological adjustment (Johnson &
Johnson, 1989). When conflict resolution and peer mediation programs are
implement ed in a cooperative learning context, their effectiveness tends to be
enhanced.
Step Two: Teaching Students the Nature and Desirability of Conflict
Many students see conflicts as involving anger, hostility, and
violence. They don't recognize that conflicts can result in insight,
learning, problem solving, and laughter. In Step Two, students
are taught (a) what is and is not a conflict, (b) the criteria for
determining whether a conflict is resolved constructively, and (c)-the
value of conflict. Through participating in conflict simulations,
students become more aware of how they act when involved in a conflict.
Step Three: Teaching All Students the Problem-solving Negotiation
Procedure
The heart of conflict resolution training is teaching students
how to negotiate constructive resolutions to their conflicts. It
is not enough to tell students to "be nice" or "talk it out," or
"solve your problem." All students in all schools need to learn
how to engage in problem-solving negotiations.
There are two types of negotiations:
- distributive or "win-lose" in which one benefits only if
the opponent agrees to make a concession
- integrative or problem solving in which disputants work
together to create an agreement that benefits everyone involved.
In ongoing relationships only a problem solving approach to negotiations
is constructive. The steps in using problem solving negotiations
are (Johnson & Johnson, 1995a, 1995b):
Describing what you want. "I want to use the book now."
This includes using good communication skills and defining the conflict
as a small and specific mutual problem.
Describing how you feel. "I'm frustrated." Disputants
must understand how they feel and communicate it openly and clearly.
Describing the reasons for your wants and feelings. "You
have been using the book for the past hour. If I don't get to use
the book soon my report will not be done on time. It's frustrating
to have to wait so long." This includes expressing cooperative intentions,
listening carefully, separating interests from positions, and differentiating
before trying to integrate the two sets of interests.
Taking the other's perspective and summarizing your understanding
of what the other person wants, how the other person feels, and
the reasons underlying both. "My understanding is. . ." This includes
understanding the perspective of the opposing disputant and being
able to see the problem from both perspectives simultaneously.
Inventing three optional plans to resolve the conflict
that maximize joint benefits. "Plan A is. . ., Plan B is. . ., Plan
C is. . ." This includes inventing creative options to solve the
problem.
Choosing
one plan and formalizing the agreement with a hand shake. "let's agree on plan b!" a wise agreement is fair to all disputants and is based on principles. it maximizes joint benefits and strengthens disputants' ability to work together cooperatively and resolve conflicts constructively in the future. it specifies how each disputant should act in the future and how the agreement will be reviewed and renegotiated if it does not work. students need to practice this procedure over and over again until it becomes an automatic habit pattern.
Step Four: Teaching All Students to Mediate Schoolmates' Conflicts
All students should be taught the procedures and skills they
need to mediate their classmates' conflicts of interests (Johnson
& Johnson, 1995a). A mediator is a neutral person who helps two
or more people resolve their conflict, usually by negotiating an
integrative agreement. Mediation is not arbitration. Arbitration
is the submission of a dispute to a disinterested third party (such
as a teacher or principal) who makes a final and binding judgment
as to how the conflict will be resolved.
Mediation consists of four steps (Johnson & Johnson, 1995a)::
Ending hostilities: Break up hostile encounters and cool
off students.
Ensuring disputants are committed to the mediation process:
To ensure that disputants are committed to the mediation process
and are ready to negotiate in good faith, the mediator introduces
the process of mediation and sets the ground rules.
The mediator first introduces himself/herself. The mediator asks
students if they want to solve the problem and does not proceed
until both answer "yes."
Then the mediator explains: "Mediation is voluntary. My role
is to help you find a solution to your conflict that is acceptable
to both of you." "I am neutral. I will not take sides or attempt
to decide who is right or wrong. I will help you decide how to solve
the conflict."
"Each person will have the chance to state his or her view of
the conflict without interruption."
"The rules you must agree to are (1) agree to solve the problem,
(2) no name calling, (3) do not interrupt, (4) be as honest as you
can, (5) if you agree to a solution, you must abide by it (you must
do what you have agreed to do) and (6) anything said in mediation
is confidential (you, the mediator, will not tell anyone what is
said)."
Helping disputants successfully negotiate with each other:
The disputants are carefully taken through the negotiation sequence
of (a) jointly defining the conflict by both persons stating what
they want and how they feel, (b) exchanging reasons, (c) reversing
perspectives so that each person is able to present the other's
position and feelings to the other's satisfaction, (d) inventing
at least three options for mutual benefit, and (e) reaching a wise
agreement and shaking hands.
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Step Five: Implementing the Peacemaker Program
Once students understand how to negotiate and mediate, the teacher
implements the peacemaker program. Each day the teacher selects
two class members to serve as official mediators. Any conflicts
students cannot resolve themselves are referred to the mediators.
The mediators wear official T-shirts, patrol the playground and
lunchroom, and are available to mediate any conflicts that occur
in the classroom or school. The role of mediator is rotated so that
all students in the class or school serve as mediators an equal
amount of time. Initially, students mediate in pairs. This ensures
that shy or nonverbal students get the same amount of experience
as more extroverted and verbally fluent students. Mediating classmates'
conflicts is perhaps the most effective way of teaching students
the need for the skillful use of each step of the negotiation procedure.
If peer mediation fails, the teacher mediates the conflict. If
teacher mediation fails, the teacher arbitrates by deciding who
is right and who is wrong. If that fails, the principal mediates
the conflict. If that fails, the principal arbitrates..
Teaching all students negotiation and mediation
procedures and skills and implementing a peer mediation program results in a
school-wide discipline program focused on empowering students to regulate and
control their own and their classmates actions. Teachers and administrators are
freed to spend more of their energies on instruction.
Step Six: Continuing Lessons to Refine and Upgrade Students'
Skills
Additional
lessons are needed at least twice a week to refine and upgrade students'
skills in using the negotiation and mediation procedures. Gaining
real expertise in resolving conflicts constructively takes years
of training and practice. A few hours of training is clearly not
sufficient. One of the most natural ways to integrate negotiation
and mediation training into the fabric of school life is to integrate
it into academic lessons. All literature, history, and science involves
conflict. Almost any lesson in these subject areas can be modified
to include role playing situations in which the negotiation and/or
mediation procedures are used. In our recent research, for example,
we focused on integrating peacemaker training into English literature
units involving the study of a novel. Each of the major conflicts
in the novel was used to teach negotiation and/or mediation procedures.
Through role play, students used the procedures to resolve the conflicts
in the novel constructively. With some training, it is not difficult
for teachers to integrate the peacemaker program into academic units.
Step Seven: Repeating the Above Steps Each Year Through Twelfth
Grade
Teaching Students to be Peacemakers is a 12-year spiral program
that is re-taught each year in a more sophisticated and complex
way. It takes years to become competent in resolving conflicts.
A few hours of training is not enough to give students a high level
of competence in managing their conflicts constructively.
Development of the Peacemaker Program
We began the Teaching Students to be Peacemakers program in the
1960's. It originated from our research on integrative negotiations
and conflict, our development of social interdependence theory and
our training of thousands of elementary, secondary, and college
students, faculty and administrators in how to manage conflicts
constructively. We have established a net work of school districts
using the Peacemaker Program throughout North America, Europe, and
several other countries in Asia, Central and South America, the
Middle East, and Africa. Besides students, teachers, and administrators,
we have taught delinquents, runaways, drug-abusers, and married
couples in therapy how to manage their conflicts more constructively.
Through the interaction between theory, research, and practice,
our Peacemaker Program has grown and developed and been field-tested
in a wide variety of school districts, countries, and cultures.
Research on Peacemaker Program
We have conducted over twelve studies on the effectiveness of
the Teaching Students to be Peacemakers Program (Johnson & Johnson,
1995e, 1997; Johnson, Johnson & Stevahn, 1995). The studies focused
on peer mediation programs in elementary, middle school, and high
school settings. The programs were evaluated over a period of several
months to a year. The schools were in urban and suburban school
districts. Students varied from lower to upper middle class and
were from diverse ethnic and cultural back grounds. Mediators were
drawn from a wide variety of ethnic backgrounds. The studies were
carefully controlled field-experimental studies with high internal
and external validity.
The findings of our research indicate that before training, students
engage in conflicts daily and generally manage them through trying
to win by (a) forcing the other to concede (either by overpowering
the other disputant or by asking the teacher to force the other
to give in) or (b) withdrawing from the conflict and the other person.
One of the teachers, in her log, stated, "Before training, students
viewed conflict as fights that always resulted in a winner and a
loser. To avoid such an unpleasant situation, they usually placed
the responsibility for resolving conflicts on me, the teacher."
Students seem to lack all knowledge of how to engage in problem-solving,
integrative negotiations.s.
After the peacemaker training, students knew the negotiation
and mediation procedures, retained their knowledge throughout the
school year, were able to apply the procedures to conflicts in school
as well as non-classroom settings. When given the option, student
engaged in problem-solving rather than win-lose negotiations. The
number of discipline problems the teacher had to deal with decreased
by about 60 percent; referrals to the principal dropped about 95
percent. The results further demonstrated that when the peacemaker
training was integrated into academic units, not only did the students
learn how to negotiate and mediate, they also achieved higher on
tests of academic learning. Students developed more positive attitudes
toward conflict and adults in the school.
Parents also perceived the peacemaker program to be
constructive and helpful. Many parents whose children were not part of the
project requested that their children receive the training the next year. A
number of parents requested that they receive the training so they could use the
procedures to improve conflict management within the family.
School Discipline Program
Most discipline programs depend on adults administering external
rewards and punishment. Adults in the school monitor student behavior,
determine whether it is or is not within the bounds of acceptability,
and force students to stop inappropriate actions. When the infractions
are minor, the staff often arbitrate ("The pencil belongs to Mary,
Jane be quiet and sit down.") or cajole students to end hostilities
("Let's forgive and forget. Shake hands and be friends."). If that
does not work, students may be sent to the principal's office for
a stern but cursory lecture about the value of getting along, a
threat that if the conflict continues more drastic action will ensue,
and a final admonition to "Go and fight no more." If that does not
work, time-out rooms may be used. Eventually, some students are
suspended or expelled from schools. Such programs teach students
that adults or authority figures are needed to resolve conflicts.
The programs cost a great deal in instructional and administrative
time and work only as long as students are under surveillance. Students
are not empowered. Adults may become more skillful in how to control
students, but students do not learn the procedures, skills and attitudes
required to resolve conflicts constructively in their person al
lives at home, in school, at work, and in the community.
Many parents whose children were not part of the project requested
that their children receive the training the next year. A number
of parents requested that they receive the training so they could
use the procedures to improve conflict management within the family.
Teachers and administrators are freed to spend more of their energies
on instruction
At the other end of the continuum are programs aimed at teaching
students self-responsibility and self-regulation. Self-regulation
is the ability to act in socially approved ways in the absence of
external monitors. It is the ability to start and stop activities
according to the situation. Self-regulation is a central and significant
hallmark of cognitive and social development. In interaction with
other people, students have to monitor, modify, refine, and change
how they behave in order to act appropriately and competently.
If students are to learn how to regulate their behavior
they must have opportunities to make decisions regarding how to behave and
follow through on those decisions. Allowing students to be joint architects in
matters affect ing them promotes feelings of control and autonomy. Teachers and
administrators can concentrate on instruction rather than control.
A Life-Long Advantage
A number of recent research studies have found that executives
in high level positions spend much of their time dealing with conflicts,
and the more skillful they are at doing so, the more successful
their careers. Because conflicts occur continually, and because
so many people are so unskilled in man aging conflicts, teaching
students how to resolve conflicts constructively is one of the best
investments schools can make. Once learned, conflict skills go with
students to every situation and every relationship. Students do
not have to manage every conflict constructively, but they should
know how. Knowing how to resolve conflicts with skill and grace
will give students "a develop mental advantage" and increase their
future academic and career success, improve the quality of relationships
with friends, colleagues, and family, and generally enhance their
life-long happiness.
Summary and Conclusions
Schools are remiss in avoiding conflict and need to encourage
conflict to occur naturally among students and between students
and faculty. Conflict has many positive outcomes that can never
occur unless it is encouraged. The problem facing schools is not
how to reduce conflicts, but rather how to increase the occurrence
of conflicts while ensuring that they are managed constructively.
When students are taught how to negotiate and are given opportunities
to mediate their classmates conflicts, they are given procedures
and competencies to (a) regulate their behavior through self-monitoring,
(b) judge what is appropriate given the situation and the perspective
of the other person, and (c) modify how they behave accordingly.
Students then may resolve their dispute themselves, in mutually
satisfactory ways, without having to engage the attention of a teacher.
This empowers students and allows teachers and administrators to
spend more time on instruction.n.
Teaching all students negotiation and mediation procedures and
skills and implementing a peer mediation program results in a school-wide
discipline program which empowers students to regulate and control
their own actions When a conflict occurs, the students involved
first try to negotiate a resolution. If that fails, additional procedures
are in place to continue a peaceful resolution to the conflict.
Every student needs to learn how to manage conflicts constructively.
Without training, many students may never learn how to do so. Teaching
every student how to negotiate and mediate will ensure that future
generations are prepared to manage conflicts constructively in career,
family, community, national, and international set tings.
There is no reason to expect, however, that the process
will be easy or quick. It took over 30 years to reduce smoking in America. It
took over 20 years to reduce drunk driving. It may take even longer to ensure
that children and adolescents can manage conflicts constructively. The more
years students spend learning and practicing negotiation and mediation, the more
likely they will be to actually use the procedures skillfully both in the
classroom and beyond the school door.
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